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sarnewfie

New member
'The hearing was today. The judge said i cant pay the debt i am not making enough money, jason has to take it.
I decided to dump the house, it is 90 thousand in debt ripped up for 7 years inside and nothing is done and i wont have the funds to finish it.
Erica who has a few of my pups said i could rent from her! is that fabulous or what? she used to live there with her newfs, beautiful fenced yard though not as big as mine i will take it.
it has a dishwasher!!! and they pay the heat and i pay elect and water. i will be ok but scraping like i am in this house for now.
it is 475 to rent with a huge basement. i am going to ask if i can groom dogs in one of the rooms but not do any bathing. if she says ok, than i will be very happy.
i am now so dammed relieved. i have a place to live, erica said the bottom has not been filled since jan. and it is a pain to rent out to people who only live there five months.
anyway, i am happy as ****. i thanked everyone and still do who let me cry on their shoulder.
it looks like bi polar jason who was trying to screw christine, wont be able to do that after all, and, things dont go jasons way like he thinks they always will.
not sure what will happen with him also taking the house, i think if he does fix it, then sells that i would be gauranteed money out of it.
i am happy just to be debt free, not sure i will get any maintenance... i hope some....
but, jason dug this hole, now he has to dig himself out!!! ROTFL!!!!:beer::beer::beer: that is how many drinks i have had in celebration becouse no one can know how much i agonized over finding somewhere to live without having to give up my babies!!!!
 

Angela

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:grouphug:
The main thing is you have a roof over your head and the furries. Things can only get better you know!
 

ozzysma

New member
so glad to hear you were able to settle somewhere with your babies!!they sure are our comfort in stressful times!!!
 

sarnewfie

New member
Angela, i still have not heard anything from the hospital! LOL i probably will not. there were a bunch of transcriptionists laid off, so, i am sure that several of them applied also. Thanx so much for checking on me.
Needless to say i am completly utterly relieved. I lived a dark nightmare with this bi polar man. his spending of dollars is part of the disease, he has other issues ocd, pathological, narcissim which all tie into the horrible habbits that only would have put me into a big huge dark hole.
Now jason has to face his failures, he will have to clean up the mess he left sitting outside for years, he will have to face responsibility of cutting grass and sno blowing, he will have to finish the inside of this house that was ripped up for 7 years.
God is looking out for me for sure and i am grateful and thankful!!
thanx all!!!
 

Allise

New member
Welcome to your new start in life..may the future be bright...you've certainly paid your dues and deserve better...Cheers!
 

R Taft

Active member
I am so glad for you and your babies.......may peacefulness reign in your lives, take care, Ronnie
 

Elizabeth

New member
I'm glad you are finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel :)
May your future be filled with happiness! Cheers! :beer:

E
 

KS Newf

New member
Christine, I have wondered about you so much, and I am really glad to hear you will have a place to live. This is a big problem, an important problem, and now it's solved. A life being lived without the immediate presence of someone with a mental disorder who will not get help for himself is freedom indeed! A small place with a fenced yard is perfect! Utility bills will be lower, and it is all in one piece!!!You have your freedom, a roof over your head, your Newfies, and a dishwasher to boot!!! :) I am so happy for you, and yes, God is looking out for you!
 

Largo

Active member
Good to hear you are doing alright Christine. Sounds like the worst of it is behind you. That is a good thing. Now things can keep getting better for you. Stay strong and keep your chin up.
 

Tricia2

New member
I have walked in your shoes. I'm 5 years out from a similar situation and my life was drastically downsized when I made the final break. How many balls can one person keep in the air when your life partner keeps hitting them out of the park? Tasks always unfinished, promises made and broken. I didn't realize how much psychic energy was being drained by my mentally ill husband, always trying to keep the lid on a pot boiling over. You can't fix someone who doesn't know how broken they are, they are 'soul suckers.'

I'm here to tell you, even though I don't have the material things I once had, I live in a rental because he squandered all my finacial resources, all in all it's not that bad. When the furnace breaks down or the roof leaks, it's not up to me to make repairs. When I come home, the happy faces and wagging tails greet me, any chaos is of my own creation and any mess that needs to be cleaned up is mine and mine alone. I have peace of mind and not a bit of guilt out of walking away. I hope you get there, too. You will.
 
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Ivoryudx

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GOOD for you!!! I'm so happy to hear that things are looking much better for you. What a relief and what a good friend to rent to you when you need it most. Your going to be so much better. Like others have said, its all up from here! :)
 
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