So, i happen to know some truth around this particular incident and although I would prefer to stay out of it, I think my friends on this site should get the other side. As i understand it, the "breeder" provided the "said puppy owner" with $500 upon learning of the first elbow surgery. The dog recovered nicely from this surgery. The breeder also paid money to have the xrays reviewed by the expet in Ohio. The breeder offered to take the dog to Ohio to be evaluated by the specialist in person. The "said puppy owner" wrote accusatory notes to the breeder, refused advice to purchase insurance and continues to accuse the breeder of being only interested in money.
You are wrong about a few things here, so as it turns out, you don't know the "truth." you only know what you know.
Here is the truth, for the record:
Hemingway had surgery back in December for FMCP. Yes, they removed bone chips that were causing him discomfort. But anyone knows surgery does not fix elbow dysplasia....his elbows are not formed properly! He has a progressive degenerative disease in his elbows! His surgeon told me that the cartilage is almost completely gone in one elbow. Which we all know does not regenerate. Hemingway noticeably tries to avoid bearing a lot of weight on this front legs. Does he play? Yes. Does he run? Yes. He is a puppy and therefore seems to have complete disregard for his body! (much to my dismay!) So, had we not performed the surgery, his elbows would be in worse shape, but it did not "cure" him of elbow dysplasia. His elbows are our biggest problem. So hearing his hips were less than perfect...and in fact the first assessment being "Poor," was VERY upsetting, knowing that he uses his hips to try and avoid putting too much weight on his front!
Our breeder did give us $500 toward the surgery, which cost us $3500. We were glad she helped, but at that time, several people were telling us that she should have refunded us the purchase price, right then and there., regardless of what was in the contract. I didn't know what to think or expect from her or what to hold her responsible for....this is our first purebred dog.
We did not get insurance on Hemingway the day we brought him home. We thought about it and talked about it and then within WEEKS of buying him we were in the vet for his lameness in the front. Once you discuss a problem with your vet, that problem is NOT COVERED BY INSURANCE. It is called "pre-exisiting." So despite being faced with an expensive surgery, we knew insurance would do nothing for us regarding that issue. So we did not get it. We also discussed a popping sound in his hips with our vet around the same time. Our vet manipulated his hips and noted: possible malformation. So, insurance would not help us there either. based on where we are at this point, we literally would have needed to get insurance the day we brought him home. He is our first dog. We didn't do it. We SHOULD HAVE. And I will always tell people to do it immediately. Lesson learned. If at any point after his lameness I thought insurance would even TOUCH this dog, I would have gotten it. But it seemed almost immediate that we started having problems, and you all know as well as I do that insurance companies will not cover pre-exisiting issues. So, we didn't "refuse" to get insurance. We didn't get it fast enough and then felt like it was useless.
I did write my breeder an email when I was very very upset. You must know, I was in tears about his hips for days. I couldn't even call his vet to discuss it because I was too upset. I couldn't talk about it without crying. I have apologized to my breeder for approaching her with so much anger. I am a protective mom and I felt I had been "duped." I now understand that was not the case. You must know that several respectable, intelligent elders in the Newf world (people many of us here trust and look up to) were encouraging me to ask for a refund and were in my ear telling me a refund was in order the day of his ED diagnosis. So, what was I supposed to do? When several people I trust tell me a refund is "the right thing to do, for HEMINGWAY" you bet your a$$ I'm going to push for it!!! They had me at "for Hemingway"!!! It was not about the dollar amount. It was about what I was being told was "MORALLY RIGHT."
All I have EVER wanted in any of this was the best thing for my dog. I'm hoping my breeder and I will be able to move forward. I accept her decision. Yes, she offered to take Hemingway to Ohio for a proper hip evaluation but I know my dog and he does not do well away from home...and has just been put under for two procedures. I am simply not comfortable having him all the way in Ohio, knocked out for Xrays, just to confirm he is dysplastic. I will take it as it comes....when he seems more uncomfortable we will do what we have to in order to make him comfortable! But I told her that I whole-heartedly appreciate the offer and the Xray review. Having another take on the image has given me a better perspective.
I have not been on here spewing lies and hate. I was and am very disappointed that I have a PUPPY with these problems, and the uncertainty of what the future holds is unsettling. I asked your opinions on what you thought was in order in this type of situation. I'm glad I got so many responses because many of them were opposite of what I had been hearing and I needed to see that side of the argument. I wish I had consulted NN prior to emailing my breeder, but what's done is done and the rest is between her and me.
I would hope you'd all understand the upsetting, confusing time I went through over the last couple of weeks with Hemingway, and know that it was overwhelming for me. That what we've been through with our first newfoundland has been discouraging, at BEST. And our experiences in life are what form our opinions and thoughts and feelings. THIS is all I have had to go off of. So forgive me if I sounded bitter in this thread!
To answer Cindy- the reason I got a Newfoundland was because "Sweetness of temperament is the hallmark of the Newfoundland." Hemingway has certainly lived up to that.