Lost my Husband

Ksullivan

New member
Sept. 12 my Husband passed from a heart attack, very quickly, and very unexpected right before the homecoming football game that we had just entered to watch our grand son play.

I still work, and Mike was home all day with our dogs, and talked to them like humans, amazing how many words they really do comprehend. When Mike went on his fishing trips to Canada, our Newf (Sully) would constantly look for him, and never stop, and whenever myself, or my children, or grandchildren would come in before him, he would be happy to see all of us, but look around us for his "Dad". Mike adored Sully like a child. After Mike's passing I thought it would be heartbreaking to watch Sully constantly look for Mike. I was going through the bag of clothes the hospital sent home, and in it was the sweatshirt he had cut off of him at the football game to shock his heart. I laid the sweatshirt on the floor, and Sully smelled, and smelled the sweatshirt, and after that he no longer looked for Mike, he knew.

I just wanted to let you know that if you loose a loved one that your Newf is attached to I firmly believe if you do this they understand from the smell. My loving Sully surely did.

My daughter, who is not fond of the slobbers was in Mike's room looking for something, and she laid down and cried, and Sully went up, licked her face, and laid down beside her. He is now her ew best friend. Her daughter loves Sully, so she always knew if something happened to both of us she would have him, of course I have a good friend that would want him also, but my daughter said that my granddaughter would never stand for that. I don't know what I would do without him now.
 

lmfoltyn

New member
I am so very very sorry for your loss!! May Sully give you all the love he has right now...I am sure you need each other right now more than anything else...
 

victoria1140

Active member
I am so sorry.l just lost one of my dearest friends to a heart attack last week and its the silly things l miss.she was so looking forward to seeing our pups and yes our newfs are highly intuitive.

hugs and hope you have a good support network.
 

2newfs4now

New member
I'm so sorry for your loss. :( Two years ago, I lost both my Newfs within three weeks of each other and two months later, lost my husband. Without Koda (my little Lab), I don't think I could have made it... Our animals (dogs, especially), are so in tuned to our emotions. I'm glad you have your pups and family for support. It really does help to have someone happily greet you when you walk through the door. My thoughts and sincerest condolences are with you and your loved ones.
 

Jeannie

Super Moderator
So very sorry to hear of the death of your husband. It must have been very traumatic. Thank God you have Sully to help you through this time. Yes, I believe they can smell death and understand. Hugs to you and your family. You will be in my prayers.
 

hsemko

New member
I am so sorry to hear of your husband passing...I don't really know what to say except you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so glad that Sully understood. How heartbreaking.(((HUGS)))
 

Puppypeoplenj

New member
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you must be going through, but you'll be in my thoughts. I'm so sorry.
 

ElvisTheNewf

Active member
I'm so sorry for your loss. There really aren't words that can make it better, except that I'm praying for you and your family and I'm so glad you have Sully there with you. I agree that I'm sure Sully knew from the smell of that sweatshirt and is doing his own grieving. He's just as lucky to have you as you are him.
 

Lori

New member
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you and Sully have each other. Hugs to you and your family.
 

R Taft

Active member
I am so very sorry for your loss, it must have been and is still devastating.........But I am so glad you have Sully and your Family there for you :( :heart: :hugs: Ronnie
 

Aika

New member
I'm so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing that heartwarming story about Sully. May she be a comfort to you. Stay strong.
 
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