chiwolvesfan
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Our "middle child" Benni (Great Dane/Husky mix we think) was diagnosed with lymphoma today. She's a little over 5-1/2 years old, and has been the "big sis" to our rescue Newf, Exelby. Ex came to us 2 years ago at 6 months old, from a backyard breeder, very skittish, neglected, malnourished, etc. and immediately clung to Benni taking all of his cues from her. It is because of Benni that every day he is getting better interacting with people, playing, etc.
Benni is still acting fairly normal -- wanting to play, eating, etc. When we met with the oncologist today it became clearly apparent we cannot afford the wide spectrum protocol for chemo treatments ($5000-6000). We have decided to go with making her comfortable for the next couple months or so by giving her prednisone and the chemo drug leukeran.
So here's where I need help. Benni is the first pet I have had that is going to be crossing the bridge. I am grieving, but understand what is going on. What have you done to help your other dogs during this process? I think they already know something is going on, that she is different, but after she does cross the bridge, is there anything I should do? Anything beforehand?
Thank you for your time and insights.
Cathy
Benni is still acting fairly normal -- wanting to play, eating, etc. When we met with the oncologist today it became clearly apparent we cannot afford the wide spectrum protocol for chemo treatments ($5000-6000). We have decided to go with making her comfortable for the next couple months or so by giving her prednisone and the chemo drug leukeran.
So here's where I need help. Benni is the first pet I have had that is going to be crossing the bridge. I am grieving, but understand what is going on. What have you done to help your other dogs during this process? I think they already know something is going on, that she is different, but after she does cross the bridge, is there anything I should do? Anything beforehand?
Thank you for your time and insights.
Cathy