So it has been almost 8 months since we lost Murphy. My six year old daughter sleeps with his ashes in her room. She says prayers for Murphy each morning at school when she goes to chapel and she prayers for him as night as well. She NEVER forgets. For Christmas all she asked for was a stuffed Murphy dog -- which she is obsessed with. Before any present giving holiday she asks me if Murphy will still remember her. So for Christmas and her birthday she got outfits from Murphy. Those are the only things she wants to wear because they are from her special dog.
We can be in the middle of a happy moment and she will suddenly burst into tears and say she misses Murphy. She tells everyone she meets that Murphy is up with God, she tells them about his presents and she talks about how she cannot wait to go up to God to be with Murphy again. Freaks me out a little bit sometimes. My son is completely over it -- but Samantha is/was still very effected. Granted this is the first death of any kind she has had to deal with. We took in my sister's 7 year old German Shepherd immediately after Murphy died to help with the transition. She is not the most playful of dogs -- so I guess it has not helped as much as I had hoped it would.
So with a 9 month old baby I thought maybe when he is 2 1/2 or 3 it might be a good time for another dog. Well last week we started fostering dogs again for German Shepherd Rescue. We wound up with a little chihuahua/min pin thing - around 12 weeks old which does not have an ounce of shepherd in him. Somehow it got marked as a GSD puppy and our volunteer took him. It happens sometimes. Either way he is on the website and available for adoption. So here is the dilemma -- she has come back alive. I have not heard about Murphy for a week -- she will wear anything I tell her to and she is in love with this dog. My husband and I are horrified because we are not small dog people -- and especially not a chihuahua min-pin thing that is yappy and annoying. Do we keep this dog that she seems to be the only one that likes it -- or do we adopt it out and immediately bring in another foster -- or another dog we would like to keep like a newfie? Keep in mind with three kids, busy schedules and one being a crawling baby it is not really the time for a dog right now. On top of that this dog seems to have springs on his feet and jumps straight in the air while screeching. In his excitement he nipped our GSD and she needed 4 stitches to close the wound under her eye. Help!!
We can be in the middle of a happy moment and she will suddenly burst into tears and say she misses Murphy. She tells everyone she meets that Murphy is up with God, she tells them about his presents and she talks about how she cannot wait to go up to God to be with Murphy again. Freaks me out a little bit sometimes. My son is completely over it -- but Samantha is/was still very effected. Granted this is the first death of any kind she has had to deal with. We took in my sister's 7 year old German Shepherd immediately after Murphy died to help with the transition. She is not the most playful of dogs -- so I guess it has not helped as much as I had hoped it would.
So with a 9 month old baby I thought maybe when he is 2 1/2 or 3 it might be a good time for another dog. Well last week we started fostering dogs again for German Shepherd Rescue. We wound up with a little chihuahua/min pin thing - around 12 weeks old which does not have an ounce of shepherd in him. Somehow it got marked as a GSD puppy and our volunteer took him. It happens sometimes. Either way he is on the website and available for adoption. So here is the dilemma -- she has come back alive. I have not heard about Murphy for a week -- she will wear anything I tell her to and she is in love with this dog. My husband and I are horrified because we are not small dog people -- and especially not a chihuahua min-pin thing that is yappy and annoying. Do we keep this dog that she seems to be the only one that likes it -- or do we adopt it out and immediately bring in another foster -- or another dog we would like to keep like a newfie? Keep in mind with three kids, busy schedules and one being a crawling baby it is not really the time for a dog right now. On top of that this dog seems to have springs on his feet and jumps straight in the air while screeching. In his excitement he nipped our GSD and she needed 4 stitches to close the wound under her eye. Help!!