I don't frequent this section

[ZoomZoom]

I have been on NN for over a year and I have totally avoided this section after the first month because the stories of passing Newfs was too much for me to read about when I was just beginning my journey with my pup. For what ever reason, today I sat and read through several postings and although I cried through most of it, I realize that there can be tremendous joy found in reading the stories about the life changing experiences these animals have brought to their owners. I don't think I could appreciate that a year ago when I was just falling in love with my Newf...but I totally get it now and I think of all the sections, I will most likely start with these posts moving forward. Thank you, all of you, who have shared your stories with us. These tales have brought enrichment to my life and have made me a better partner for my dog. I am so sorry you have lost your companion, and grateful that you had your chance to experience their love.

 

[new_2_newf]

I find it oddly uplifting as well, and often humbling. Makes me pause and give my boy an extra hug which is good for both of us.

 

[Leonard and his bud Snuffles]

I kind of come and go. When I come, the realization there will be a day I will have to face Snuffles will no longer be here. Then I stay away.

 

[Tricia2]

I make it a point to comment on every passing Newf or not. It is so easy to forget, as we go through our daily lives, how much our lives are touched and changed by the pets with which we surround ourselves. Life moves on with it's ups and downs but they are constants until one day they are old or sick or tragically injured.

They honor us with their spirits every day, when they pass they are owed the acknowledgement that they made a positive impact, a circle of ripples in the pond so to speak, that reached beyond their immediate family and touched people from around the world who stop here to witness the cycles of life.

 

[Erika]

our newfs past and present have bonded us all here on NN together. Welcome to our world , I lost 2 pyrs in 07 if it was not for folks I have met on here , the journey of loosing my Luvs would have been much more traumatic. We not only mourn our Luvs but celebrate their lives, Thank you for coming to this section and sharing in all stories.

As my signature says My sunshine does not come from the skies but from the love in my dogs eyes..........Our luvs memories of their sunshine is always with us. Hug your newf , feel the love

 

[Newfs Forever]

I make it a point to comment on every passing Newf or not. It is so easy to forget, as we go through our daily lives, how much our lives are touched and changed by the pets with which we surround ourselves. Life moves on with it's ups and downs but they are constants until one day they are old or sick or tragically injured.

They honor us with their spirits every day, when they pass they are owed the acknowledgement that they made a positive impact, a circle of ripples in the pond so to speak, that reached beyond their immediate family and touched people from around the world who stop here to witness the cycles of life.

I agree whole heartedly! And just when you subconciously think everything is okay, you see "Rainbow Bridge" posts. And it takes you down a few pegs as well it should. As we should never take anything for granted!

JMVHO!

 

[Tula]

Beautifully said Tricia2. Kim

 

[newfx's2]

I make it a point to comment on every passing Newf or not. It is so easy to forget, as we go through our daily lives, how much our lives are touched and changed by the pets with which we surround ourselves. Life moves on with it's ups and downs but they are constants until one day they are old or sick or tragically injured.

They honor us with their spirits every day, when they pass they are owed the acknowledgement that they made a positive impact, a circle of ripples in the pond so to speak, that reached beyond their immediate family and touched people from around the world who stop here to witness the cycles of life.

Tricia, you have such a way w/ words. :hug: Loosing a pet just adds another pawprint to our heart. I've lost three (Irish Setter, Lab, Aussie) in their senior years and it hurt terribly. Nothing yet has hurt so bad as loosing my Athena at only 15 mths. It was unexpected and the only dog to ever collaspe and die in front of me w/o warning. She turned my heart into the shape of a pawprint, and looking at her younger "sister" Aurora gave me the courage to go on. I'm that much stronger and would do it all again to have those precious 15 mths back w/ my Athena, Goddess of Wisdom. She touched me in a way that I will never be the same.

 

[bria]

This family here is unlike any I have ever seen. Even if it's not a Newf (though we do have that common bond) our members are always here to lend a shoulder. I share things here that I don't even share with family and friends because here they just get it. I also don't visit this tread often and lately because I'm dealing with some sick animals of my own and at this time I just need to hold it together until I have to make that awful decision. Still I know where to turn when I need to vent or just hear some caring words.

Wonderful post.

Susan

 

[Melissakins]

I have a friend with a non-newf (Chi) who also has two Newfies who is having her vet out today to help her Chi - Chili on his final journey.

It'll be at 3:00 PST.

She's really struggled with this as we all have, I'm sure. It's nice to know there's folks out there who "get it". I shared the info someone posted about advice for when it's time. She really took it to heart and showed it to her hubby who was working out of the country at the time. Together they made the decision to say their final goodbye later today.

It's never easy, but sometimes the nicest thing to say in a time like this is, "I understand...." because you've been there and you get it.

 

[R Taft]

I have "left" NN in the past and each time the loss of one of my newfs has brought me back.because only likeminded people understand the loss of one you care for so very much. It is great to be able to ramble on and think of the lovely times we have with our loved pets. And for people to understand the feelings we have. to so many people it is still "only a dog" or pet..........Everytime I see a new heading in Rainbow Bridge, I almost don't wamt to check, because i feel each time that I have lost someone special. But I know how it made me feel to have the kind words and support, so I open the page and look. And hopefully the little support I can give from so far away will help a little towards the healing. It is a sad place in many ways, but also a healing place with a lot of kindness and caring..............Ronnie

 

[AngusMcDubhsMom]

This community is amazing and they are here for us when we need them. I try to check in on this as much as possible, because I know how precious a cyber hug and some words of kindness are when you're hurting so much. And yes, there are times when I see a very familiar name and my heart stops...oh, no, not him, not her...and we are saddened and humbled and hug our Newfs closer too, because we know nothing should ever be taken for granted.

 

[Kobutsu]

I've never been in here before... I know why, as I sit here with tears streaming down my face. I had to get up and go give Harley-Bear a "tummy-rub" for a bit. I can't imagine ever loosing him, but I couldn't imagine loosing my other Newfs either. It's sad they are with us for such a short while....

 

[pabusinesswoman]

The longer your here, the more you start hearing more about the people, their families, and their pets. As weird as it sounds, it sort of feels like and extended family. You get to see a dog as a pup and watch them grow. You hear their trials and tribulations through life. You are able to make a virtual connection and sometimes a real life connection with them at the gatherings.

Though I am sure I miss a few, I always try to comment when someone has a rainbow bridge posting or a post of a sick dog or family member. I've been on the receiving end of them both when my daughter was going in for surgeries and when my chow of 11 years, Kayra passed. Though I had lost other pets before, she really hit me hard. Though they just seem like words on a screen, it was of significant comfort.

Even though it is on a computer, those posts do help the person upset or grieving. It gives you the sense that someone else knows where your coming from and they understand why your so upset. Sometimes I wish I could just jump in a jet and go give them a real hug instead of a virtual one.

It also helps to humble one and remind us to enjoy every minute with these precious creatures. Their time with us is way too short.

 

[TerriW]

Mostly, it's the last testament and respect we can show the dog and his/her family.