Kim, Please know that you are in my thoughts. I'm so sorry for your loss..
I'm going to share this lovely poem. I think it says it all...
[SIZE=+0]Don't think of her as gone away--[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]her journey's just begun[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]life holds so many facets[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]this earth is only one. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]Just think of her as resting[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]from the sorrows and the tears[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]in a place of warmth and comfort[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]where there are no days and years. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]Think how she must be wishing[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]that we could know today[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]how nothing but our sadness[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]can really pass away.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]And think of her as living[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]in the hearts of those she touched...[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]for nothing loved is ever lost--[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+0]and she was loved so much.[/SIZE]