Still Find It Very Hard Without My Boy...

jane

jane

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It was one year ago, yesterday, that I lost my buddy, my best friend, my handsome man, my soul mate...My heart still aches for him every day...Some days I just fall apart over my Roger no longer being here with me...A day doesn't go by where I don't look at pictures of him, videos of him, and literally talk to him...

 
Pregreen

Pregreen

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All Is Well
Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used
Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was,
Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was, there is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near,
Just around the corner.
All is well.
Henry Scott Holland
1847-1918
Canon of St Paul 's Cathedral
 
KS Newf

KS Newf

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Thank you for that wonderful poem. It means a lot. Jane, I understand. . . I understand about never being the same again. I have had subtle mockery when I mentioned this, so I will now only come here for comfort. Prayers going out to you and the energy that says, "You will be together again in the long someday , and Roger really is with you now." These are my beliefs.
 
R Taft

R Taft

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Awwww Jane It is so difficult we love our newfies so much and sometimes there is the particular :heart:dog that takes you breath away and you are lost without them...........I cannot promise it will get better, only that sometimes you can start smiling at the memory instead of crying :hugs: Ronnie
 
skoorka

skoorka

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Jane, I'm so sorry. Roger was a force of nature, a gorgeous beast, with a wonderful nature. It's so hard when we lose them, but so wonderful to think upon the times when we had them. (((HUGS))) Michelle
 
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wrknnwf

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It's difficult to read this thread, having just lost my boy and best friend. I completely understand the feeling and the huge hole that it leaves in your life. We did so many things together that I miss terribly.

I hope that time will mend the many lives that have been touched by a Newf, but I know that it will never be the same again.
 
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