One of our own needs prayers and good thoughts

Codes

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I so hope she won't mind me posting this but she is such a dear sweet woman and she and her boyfriend need all the prayers and good thoughts we can muster.

Anne Atherley's (Angus McDubhs Mom) boyfriend was on vacation when he was struck down by seizure while he was on vacation in Sydney, NS They air flighted him to Halifax to ICU at Queen EII hospital.. Halifax Infirmary unit, neurology icu..


His prognosis is not good. He cannot speak and his left side is not working. He has multiple brain bleeds. It will be a few days before they know much, but say he has brain damage which probably will not get any better. He hadn't been feeling well recently but didn't want to cancel vacation. He thought it was just the usual feeling crappy and maybe too much sun. Instead they say his brain has multiple bleeds and his blood is not clotting properly, so they don't have any answers yet. No surgery is contemplated at this time; just treating everything medically.


These two have been together for years! They love one another dearly and I'm so hoping and praying for a miracle and a good outcome, somehow.
 
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Angela

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That is most devastating news Mary K, Anne came here to visit her Mom a few years back and we met for lunch and she told me all about him and how much they were so happy with each other. I pray for a miracle. Can you update us when possible?
 
Tricia2

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I am sick at heart to read this news. Anne was my NCNE sponsor in 2010 and a friend who sent periodic uplifting notes, gifts and words of encouragement through my ongoing battle with cancer and Lu's sudden death, even when she lost 3 of her beloved Newfs. I'll touch base with some club friends to see if there is any support we can muster to help her get through this. She and Dave have endured a lot of health setbacks over the years, she is Canadian strong but this is devastating.
 
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Thanks so much everyone. I only met Dave once which was last month when he came with Anne to pick up their puppy.What a nice guy!! I could feel the love he and Anne have for one another. I first met Anne and Traveler at Newfie Fun Days several years ago. Such a wonderful woman and she is so passionate about this fabulous breed. She's also one of those people who would do anything for anyone.

Her dogs Bella and Gander are being cared for by Earl Ferguson. Sounds like they are in very good hands.

I just got this update:

Dave's sister Diane and I had talks with the doctor in charge of Dave's care. It does not look good. They took the breathing tube out awhile ago and he is breathing on his own. Still paralyzed on left side, unresponsive and unconscious, although he fidgets a lot with his right hand and I hold it a lot. I think he knows i'm holding it. The doctor says their plan is to watch and keep him comfortable and place him in god's hands. If he stops breathing they will not reinsert the breathing tube. He says if it's a blessing he may die peacefully, without pain and quickly; but they just don't know if he'll come around at this stage.
My emotions are so torn. I don't want him to die and I don't want him to suffer. It's horrible feeling so helpless.



I hope Anne will forgive me for sharing such personal and private details of her and Dave's struggle. I'm just putting all this out in the universe in hopes that somehow all will be well, however that is supposed to play out.:hug::grouphug:



 
Tricia2

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Thank you for the update, Mary K. Please tell Anne that many of her Newf community friends (including former frequent Newf-Net folks) are praying for her and Dave. Please let us know if she needs anything.
 
Codes

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I have, Angela and Tricia. She thanks everyone so very much for keeping her and Dave in their thoughts and prayers.
 
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So sorry to hear this. I understand what she is going through, because this is how my own husband died. All my thoughts and prayers are with her.
 
Codes

Codes

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I haven't heard a word from Anne today. I'm getting mighty concerned. I just hope she and Dave are OK. As soon as i get an update I will let you know.
 
Codes

Codes

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Sadly, Dave just passed away:cry: Anne is absolutely beside herself. She lost her friend, her lover and her heart. Dave meant the world to her and they were together for over 20 years.

Anne's brother, sister and Earl are with her right now. I'm thankful she has that support.

Godspeed Dave. You will be deeply missed. You and Anne are in the thoughts and prayers of so many people. I hope your journey is a safe one. :grouphug:
 
Codes

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Anne thanks you for all your love and support. Dave will be buried in Barnet, VT next to his beloved Mom. Those of you close by in New England or Canada may be able to attend if you wish. I will post details of the funeral as they become available.

I will be attending and not sure if this is appropriate but if you all wanted to send Anne a card or something, you could send it to me and I can deliver it to her. Just a thought..
 
Tricia2

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I'm heartbroken for Anne. I struggle with life being fair or unfair and this feels very unfair, Dave was a good guy and together they were a great team. The only bright image I can muster is Dave crossing over to be greeted by his Mom and his dogs, Angus, Maneen, Gracie and Traveler.

Farewell Dave, we will remember you. This photo was taken on 8/28/2009 at The Dog Days of August at Mystic Seaport at a NCNE event.

 
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