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TinaM

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Okay, have any of you heard of this show? It is basically a TV trainwreck that I cannot look away from. I'm actually embarassed to say I personally know one of them -- but I digress. My neighbor was a finalist as the new cast member in April of this year. They had gotten a pug puppy for Valentines day and when they found out they were a finalist they gave it away (to me) because someone else on the show already has a pug -- can you believe this method of thinking? Since most of the cast members on the show have small couture purse dogs, they thought they would get something bigger. She went to Lancasterbreeders.com and ordered up an Akita from an Amish farm, just in time for the taping.

To show how shallow they are, they came over the day before and her husband borrowed, tables, accessories and flower arrangements from me to "spiffy" up the house for television. The dog arrived just in time and they got lots of cute shots of the family with the mischievious puppy. Did I mention she has three kids under 5? Now who in their right mind would pick a puppy mill Akita to join a family with three kids? They found out in May that they did not make the final cut of the show. Guess what? They now want to get rid of the Akita puppy because it is crazy and bites the kids. Seriously what is wrong with people? I am so frustrated. Our daughters are best friends so I have quite a bit of contact with them. I already helped them out by taking the pug and finding it another home. Should I continue to help these people by placing the Akita or should I let them live with the consequences of their actions? I don't want to keep rehoming dogs for them, but I also cannot be too mean about it because I have an on-going relationship because of our kids. BTW, I can easily place this dog through GSD Rescue to the right kind of owner. Do I help them out?
 
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Pipelineozzy

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I guess it depends on what you see as the future for the dog. If you DON'T help them out, will the puppy just stay there and turn from a puppy problem to an adult dog problem, and then to a euthanasia? I'd help the DOG, not them, and they would get the full blown lecture on responsible dog ownership. They are setting an extremely bad example for your daughter too!! And yes, I've seen the show..once..but I tend to not watch much television and wandered away pretty easily.
 

R Taft

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I would always help a dog if i could.........the dog is innocent in all of this, how very sad.
people like this make me so mad, but the poor Akita needs help
 

KS Newf

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This is truly a train wreck on TV, and I sometimes cannot look away either. I think you are really trapped into helping for a lot of reasons as you said, but they certainly are thoughtless and shallow! Yes, the poor dog is innocent as are the children! What a mess and sorry!!
 
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KodysGrandma

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I'm with the "help the dog" group and I would be inclined to say that somewhere in the process. Not the poor dogs fault. I do wonder more, the older I get, what sort of people we are now producing in this country. I know we always had the "schnooks" but there seem to be a lot more of them. Is that just because there are more people in general or is something else operating here? Self-centered idiots.
 

Tug

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I'd help the dog but not say anything to them. They're the kind of people who won't listen. Period. So... When their daughter is at your house, you can discuss, in every day conversation, how to treat dogs... Maybe educate the next generation.
 

ina/puusty

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Never heard of the program. Find their actions, thinking scenario..'sophomoric'..and would actively help rehome the dog. Then..I would start by redesigning the contacts..and times..and school events/clubs/sports teams/academic areas..to support your student..distance..from the other familys student. They..have not the ability..to be trained/improved. Their choices..if left to 'grow/expand'..may sooner or later..cause your child to be in danger..of a similar 'blundering about'..given their focus..now and in future. There ARE..familys who have similar strengths..as yours. FIND THEM! Create..more time spent with them..vs..time with the local/easy..family. Find..alternatives!!..and expand them..asap! ina n HB n Kesa
 

TinaM

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Why are you still friends?
To maintain friendly neighbor relations and because our 5 year old daughters are best friends. But truly the shallowness and values of these people never cease to amaze me. So I am now the proud new owner of an Akita puppy. I will be bringing him to GSD rescue this weekend for adoption day along with my 3 month old baby. Really, do they think that maybe with three kids myself (one of which is a baby) that I might be a tad bit too busy to fix their impulsive choices in life? Trust me, trying to educate these people on the lessons they are modeling for their children would be an exercise in futility.
 

Pipelineozzy

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Really, though, even if educating IS an exercise in futility, it sets an example for your daughter. My own daughter, raised in this household, began dating the son of a woman who is a high production BYB...lol...I was never so proud of her as the day she informed her boyfriend that our pups, unlike the ones at his house, will be socialized and begin potty training before they leave, and yes, take of your shoes on the way in, because MY mom doesn't let the dogs piss and **** all over the kitchen floor. THAT relationship did not last a really long time :)
 

anya

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Wow...even before you mentioned it...as I was reading your post, I knew that dog was temporary. Makes me wonder what happened to the dogs the Gosselins got. If you can find a home...bless your heart.
 
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