My Life has changed drastically

Sue M.

Sue M.

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:hugs:Hang in there C.

I would guess he didn't like that you are becoming self sufficient. Things will get better and most likely... already are. (Although it doesn't seem like it right now.) Keep a positive attitude and look to the future for that proverbial light at the end of the tunnel.
 
Ksullivan

Ksullivan

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The hardest part, believe me is loosing the parent, that you never get over, believe me from experience the guy you will. I have a friend going through this right now (his wife was not only my best friend, but I thought of her like a sister), his wife is completely like someone I never knew, he is crushed, and of course does not want a divorce, he has been hanging on for over a year now. All of his friends tell him to move on. I told him it doesn't seem like it, but it could be the best thing to ever happen to him. For her to treat him the way she has she could not possibly love him, why would he want to be with someone who cares so little. I went through this many years ago, in a 2 year marriage, and now have been married to Mike for 39 years this comming summer. If I had not gotten my divorce I would have never met the most wonderful, kind, caring person in the world. My mother always told me there are more fish in the sea, and how completely right she was!!
I wish you the best of luck, it is definately not an easy time, but it will get better.
 
victoria1140

victoria1140

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start thinking of yourself, if your ex couldn't live with your retraining , etc tough. you don't need him though it will be tough for a while but things can only get better. talk to us and just remember family and good friends are with us for life, partners are optional, if they're good hang on to em if they're bad ditch em
 
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blackberry6

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I'm sorry your going through this,
but just think what the future holds for you. To be HAPPY!!!!
We are all here for you :hugs:
 
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zennewf

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Just wanted to send good wishes. I've had a couple of major, messy brakeups in my life (not quite like yours, but one involving restraining orders, etc.) and the devestation is so painful. So, you are not alone.

All I can say is, tell yourself, "This will pass. This WILL pass." It will get better. It's not always going to be this bad. This has gotten me thru a lot of painful seasons.

((hug))

Liz

ps, you are really lucky you have the newfs to keep you company. don't let anyone tell you that you have to give them up. I had that said to me on more than one occassion. They are your main support system. you will find a place to live with them, i always did, even when I was renter for years. perhaps you have to rehome one because of logisitics and expense, but perhaps you could do it on a temporary basis.
 
anya

anya

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Where would any of us be without great friends and family and our fur kids!! I believe that things will get better for you. Special hugs for you during this time.:hugs:
 
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