missmadel
New member
I want some other opinions here. My neighbor is throwing her own baby shower. They're having a big to-do at their house and we just got an invitation. In the invitation they request that each guest bring a package of diapers. It seems to me and my husband that to request something like that for yourself is very rude and imposing. I think it would be fine if someone else was throwing the shower for her and suggested it to the guests as a gesture towards the mother. It just seems odd to request your own gift. Is it?