nikkimd7
Inactive Member
Well needles to say it has been a very emotional roller coaster weekend!!!!!!.....We have laughed, cried and had hugs all weekend long.
But I think the most important thing that could have come out of this weekend,and the whole thing is this: My son has had a breakthrough, after the abuse was done to them the last time, my son told me and authorities exactly what had happened to him and his sister, as did my daughter.
But soon after, my son struggled and started to deny anything that was done, and was diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Since this time, we have had a long road of emotional out burst he didn't understand, anger, frustration, and tears would flow from him, his anger would be taken out on siblings, and nature(tree's etc), his hysterical episode's would trigger days of fear and anxiety, no sleep, and curling up in cupboards through the night to feel safe, body and stomach aches he couldn't explain, bout's of sweats and prolonged showers to 'scrub' himself clean, when an 'ordinary' means of discipline had to happen, he would revert to being a small child, and throw himself to the ground or curl up in the corner crying hysterically.My days were spent loving him and giving him my undivided attention(most of my time not on here was times I was helping my son) and as a whole family we were struggling, his Therapist over the years had not been able to break through and help us face our little boy's demons, he had locked so far away......But yesterday, we had the break through we had been waiting for, and he remembers!!!!!!!!!!!He has remembered the most horrific acts,and As I sit here tears flowing down my cheeks, I am so thankful, that we can now help our son heal, recover, and help him grow, even with the memory of what happened, for 3 hours yesterday, my son and I, sat on my bed, and talked and cried, and held each other, we can now rebuild, and move on!
My daughter still has no memory of the things that happened,although also diagnosed with P.T.S.D, her behavior has been of a normal healthy child, apart from her learning disability and deafness..But we will be keeping a very close eye on her, even though she was only 4 when the last incident happened, my son who was 6, can also remember the times it happened when he was 3!
Thank you all for your very kind words, (Ina,
) We still have a long road ahead of us, but now we can take a step further and help him!
P.S. I am still waiting for the Information on him, the D.A's office did get back in touch, and are looking into why we weren't informed for us, I will keep you posted.
But I think the most important thing that could have come out of this weekend,and the whole thing is this: My son has had a breakthrough, after the abuse was done to them the last time, my son told me and authorities exactly what had happened to him and his sister, as did my daughter.
But soon after, my son struggled and started to deny anything that was done, and was diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Since this time, we have had a long road of emotional out burst he didn't understand, anger, frustration, and tears would flow from him, his anger would be taken out on siblings, and nature(tree's etc), his hysterical episode's would trigger days of fear and anxiety, no sleep, and curling up in cupboards through the night to feel safe, body and stomach aches he couldn't explain, bout's of sweats and prolonged showers to 'scrub' himself clean, when an 'ordinary' means of discipline had to happen, he would revert to being a small child, and throw himself to the ground or curl up in the corner crying hysterically.My days were spent loving him and giving him my undivided attention(most of my time not on here was times I was helping my son) and as a whole family we were struggling, his Therapist over the years had not been able to break through and help us face our little boy's demons, he had locked so far away......But yesterday, we had the break through we had been waiting for, and he remembers!!!!!!!!!!!He has remembered the most horrific acts,and As I sit here tears flowing down my cheeks, I am so thankful, that we can now help our son heal, recover, and help him grow, even with the memory of what happened, for 3 hours yesterday, my son and I, sat on my bed, and talked and cried, and held each other, we can now rebuild, and move on!
My daughter still has no memory of the things that happened,although also diagnosed with P.T.S.D, her behavior has been of a normal healthy child, apart from her learning disability and deafness..But we will be keeping a very close eye on her, even though she was only 4 when the last incident happened, my son who was 6, can also remember the times it happened when he was 3!
Thank you all for your very kind words, (Ina,
P.S. I am still waiting for the Information on him, the D.A's office did get back in touch, and are looking into why we weren't informed for us, I will keep you posted.