I think I know the person you're refering too. She posted something after the remark I made about the Colorado Get together....right? Maybe if you keep in touch until July, and come up for the GTG, She can also come up for the day and see how we all get along with our Newfs! Sometimes, you just need be with people who have the same problems and challenges to see things in a different perspective. She just might find that "Happy" can be quite happy, when doing the things that Newfie's love to do!