Help getting over some OCD tendencies

ElvisTheNewf

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It's no secret that Elvis can be a bit of a prince sometimes, but lately his OCD has gotten pretty bad.

Long story short, last weekend I left two boxes in our family room overnight. They were within Elvis' eyesight when he went in his cage for the night and he just couldn't handle it. He barked until I moved them to where he couldn't see them - even though they had been there all day and he had sniffed them and even helped me go through them without caring much. His cage door is always open but he never came out - he just sat in his crate and barked until I finally realized they were bothering him and moved them down the hall.

Yesterday I dared to decorate for Halloween, so now he can see some pumpkins and a fake mum from his crate. Last night he started pitching a fit again but we decided to just ignore the barking and hope he'd settle down. He's fine until we tuck him in and go upstairs and that's when the barking starts. He did quiet down after about 30 minutes of random barking, only to start up again about 5am this morning.

I hate ignoring his night time barking since he so rarely does it, but he's doing it more frequently now. I worry he's trying to tell us something's wrong but any time we go down there he's fine.

With a baby coming in a few months we're going to have a lot of new stuff in his line of vision and he's not going to be able to freak out over it every night. Any tips on how to handle this, aside from just getting out the stuff early and ignoring his barking? I know he's crying wolf but like I said before I'd hate to miss the one time he's actually trying to warn us about something. We're also not going to hide baby gear every night!

*If it helps, his crate is in our dining room. He can see into the hallway from one door and into the family room from the other. His crate has been in the same spot since we moved in 3 years ago and he's even more OCD about that so moving it isn't really an option.
 

Brandie&Maggie

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It's odd that it didn't bother him until you went upstairs. Is he having trouble seeing in the dark perhaps? Sounds crazy buy maybe get him a nightlight?

I'd put out the baby stuff pretty early - we did it at about 36/37 weeks just to let everyone get used to it and teach them that it was off limits (i.e. a pack n play is NOT a cat bed and the play mat is not a dog bed).
 

victoria1140

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Also get a doll that cries, etc and practice changing it in front of him so he gets used to it.

I second the nightlight but it may also be he is worried about you in your condition.its amazing what they can pick up on at times
 

ElvisTheNewf

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Hmmm you know what? This has all started fairly recently. Last weekend (with the big scary box) my husband was out of town and Elvis stayed RIGHT by my side the entire time. I didn't even think this had anything to do with me being pregnant since I would never, ever use the word "protective" to describe Elvis! He's 100% fine during the day and only freaks out when we head upstairs for the night.

With the box: I tucked him in at 10:30 and went upstairs. He started barking at 11, so I came down to check on him. He was just laying in his crate, not looking scared or anything, so I gave him a pat on the head and asked him to please stop barking. At 11:30 he did it again, so I went back down and he was still just laying there, looking nice and calm, but I made him go outside in case he had to pee. I tucked him back in and went upstairs. At midnight he started barking again, so I figured I'd just go down and sit on the couch with him for awhile until he got over whatever was bothering him. Once again he's just hanging out in his crate and doesn't move to come see me when I get down there. I go in the family room and see the boxes and finally realize maybe that's what is bothering him so I move those down the hall. I head back upstairs and he was quiet the rest of the night.

Last night we both were home but the barking started almost as soon as my husband came upstairs (I was already there). I knew he could see some of the decorations from his crate and we figured that's what was bothering him. I ended up going back down about 30 minutes later to get a drink and he was laying in his crate - he didn't come out to see me or anything. He had stopped by then but started up at 5am this morning. When I left for work at 7am he was fine and snoring away.

A nightlight is a great idea. Do you think I should put it in his room or in the family room so he can see what "scary" things are in there?
 

ajcooksey

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Seeing it on here I agree a night light might be the way to go. He might not be able to tell what he's looking at. I would have the light where everything is at. It's worth a shot.
 

R Taft

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We have always had to have a nightlight for Katy.she is free in the huse at night and gets "lost" when it is not one

It could be eyesight or even dementia. And again he could be etting anxious. if there is something new, maybe throw some treats near it and let the treats come from the strange stuff.

If I know my dogs worry about something, I will also do a lot of happy training near it and around it. it is how we got around thunderstorms with Annabelle and I think katy has always been borderline an anxious dog, but we have made her more relaxed by turning all scary stuff into fun. I do not hover and do not placate.i just go happy and sill near the items. if I tret the item as if it is something to worry about the dog ill get worse and sort of think "even Ronnie is worried about it"..So i go the opposite, make it silly and fun. As I said Katy was always a worried pup and had great fear periods, but she is a very chilled dog now
 

Jager's Mom

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Another thought to add...

What if you turn off all the lights (do your normal bedtime routine), then stay in the same room as Elvis to see what he does?

And/Or on the flip side, leave everything as is...and both of you go upstairs?

Doing both of these things may let you know what the exact trigger is.
 
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