This has always been a particular area for us - the most critical command, and the most difficult for us to work on.
Buddy's come when called by name (no come command) is 100% perfect in the house, 100% perfect in his yard, but out in the general yard - he figures the game is over and you're gonna haul his arse in and he's GONE ... usually throwing a look at you back over his shoulder - if he's got his ball in his mouth he looks all the world like a 5 yr old in footie pajamas with a red fire engine doing the run around the house going "I'm not going to bed!" Cute as hell, but not at all fun .. or funny.
Yeah we made some mistakes, back when because of the poor quality of the fences here, Buddy got loose a couple times. (Also the reason this issue is so critical for us). It's really the only behavioral issue we have left with the Budmeister of any concern.
Because of the previous mistakes, because we don't have a large safe place to practice off leash skills, and because Buddy has never been a dog to respond to treat training. (He likes his food and treats, but if there's something more interesting going on he's just not interested). This has made 'traditional' training a bit difficult and has for a while had us kinda stumped.
We need to take the core principles of training and apply them creatively to Buddy's own situation. I think it's going to be a step by step process. I've gotten a lot of great advice on this - it's just taken me a while to figure out how to apply it to our situation. Lemme lay out my plan here, and get a feel for what you all think
Buddy loves his ball game, a daily routine, and as part of his daily activity I don't want to restrict the activity. I can't really take his daily ball game away from him accept as a training reward, but we have in the past been able to adapt and use the ball game to teach and train other behaviors (oh like NO jumping on people).
To start with during his ball game (which he plays with both my husband and myself). One or the other of us (and we mix it up) use the happy playful come command and a hand signal when he fetches the ball - he brings the ball to the person calling him (the other person ignores him if he brings it to the wrong person), he then gets lots of praise and head rubs (which has always been part of his training) if he brings the ball straight back.
While we're working on that. We're going to start working on the long line (I have a 25 ft but I think I might up it to 50ft) again James and I together, again using the happy voice and the praise, with the same consistent hand signal. I expect it's going to be a longer harder adventure without the treats - but aside from keeping him hungry all the time I don't see much alternative.
Past that it's gonna be a bit of a trick - but we'll have to find a safe area to practice off leash eventually. I'm hoping we can get the horse yards done with fencing panels, or perhaps this will have to wait till we move. Again I suspect this will be a difficult phase - Buddy's behavior on leash (including the long line) is better / more attentive than off.
The next step will be to move the training to a safe place away from home, but with distractions, we might even back step to the long line in this instance and then again graduate to off leash.
Things I really like I hadn't thought about - but make absolute sense, reaching for his collar every time - Buddy has always been very bright and it's those clues he picks up on, even a very subtle shift in tone that says the game is over will send him running the other way.
Someone else suggested to me to keep the formal training sessions short - 3 maybe 4 repetitions - and then a high value treat - like a ride in the car to the mailbox.
Something else that occurs to me. ... up till now, Buddy's played the petulant 5 yr old about coming in when the game is over, and like a petulant 5 yr old we've given him a clear and definitive signal when the game is over (there's a timed security light on the side of the house)... but we've made the mistake of not MAKING him come in when it's over. We quit playing and go in (now he will follow us in 5 minutes later cause playing by himself is boring), but letting HIM decide when he's going to come in is a mistake. I think perhaps... combined with the touching the collar every time, we ADD in taking the leashes out with us even for a game of ball in his yard, and using the leash to bring him in when WE say the game is over. (this will have the added advantage of I hope of decreasing his excitement every time someone touches a leash doesn't necessarily mean we're going walkies....)
I know I'm kinda rambling here, and a lot of this may sound obvious or repeating what's already been said.... but I'm just kind of thinking out loud here. If we have a concrete game plan - hubby and I can have it all worked out between us and show the dog a united front... (same as we did with the kids)...
Feel free to jump in here ... I know every situation, not just my own is unique, and it might not work in our situation; or if I give it some thought I may be able to see ways of adapting other stuff into our overall plan.