My forever Bernie
- Thread starter fall3n-ang3l
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AngusMcDubhsMom
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You tried desperately to help him and your love for him shone through it all. Forgive yourself as I'm sure Bernie does. My heart aches for you. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
fall3n-ang3l
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Thank you for all your kind words,i told my neighbour what we had done and what he had done and she looked at me in horror saying she could not have done it, she is a parent too, so why could she not understand why I did what I had to do, it kills me, his slobber is still on the walls, his fur in his brush, I can still smell him, the day I can't it's gonna hurt just as bad! Tomorrow is not gonna be a good day, he is coming home in a little box
ajcooksey
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I think it took an incredible amount of strength to do what you did. She might not have realized the severity of the situation. I would have done the same thing not only for the sake of your children's safety but also the liability of him biting someone else and you being responsible. You tried so hard with him and went above and beyond I can't imagine how hard it was to make the decision but know that I completely understand.
I could not have done it either...I think you have the most incredible strength in the world to do what you HAD to do...I cry with you and I can't even begin to imagine the pain you are dealing with...having put my Dexter to sleep just killed me and still does and he was sick...I just want you to know that no one here judges you, I think you are just incredible!! Big hugs to you and your family...and the arrival of the little box is very hard!
AngusMcDubhsMom
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For some people they can say things like "I would never do that" but they haven't walked in your shoes. You did an incredibly brave thing for your family and for Bernie too. I share your pain.