LeahO
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Hey All! I had a funny thing happen last night on a family outing to the store. Ben, who's now 1 year old, is very concerned about "the momma" (me) anytime she leaves. He's my first lil Newfie, so I have lots of questions...
So we go out last night for a trip to the store with daddy & Ben riding in the back while I go in to pick up ice cream. Cody was surprised to find that when I left the car, Ben couldn't care less about him. He just drooled and looked panicked until the momma returned.
I realize that I'm "the momma" & Ben's a sweet boy, but I'm wondering if this is a puppy thing or if he's going to be stressed out at 9 years old whenever I leave his presence. I'm a little surprised by his behavior, just as I was when I paddled out to be saved by him & instead of swimming out to get me like he does with anyone else, he seemed stressed & unhappily paced on the shoreline.
Isn't that weird? Maybe I should continue putting him in uncomfortable situations so he can learn to cope or maybe that would be mean as this is a totally normal stage...
Ah, kids.
LeahO
p.s. I say co-dependence because I worry about him at times others find silly too.
So we go out last night for a trip to the store with daddy & Ben riding in the back while I go in to pick up ice cream. Cody was surprised to find that when I left the car, Ben couldn't care less about him. He just drooled and looked panicked until the momma returned.
I realize that I'm "the momma" & Ben's a sweet boy, but I'm wondering if this is a puppy thing or if he's going to be stressed out at 9 years old whenever I leave his presence. I'm a little surprised by his behavior, just as I was when I paddled out to be saved by him & instead of swimming out to get me like he does with anyone else, he seemed stressed & unhappily paced on the shoreline.
Isn't that weird? Maybe I should continue putting him in uncomfortable situations so he can learn to cope or maybe that would be mean as this is a totally normal stage...
Ah, kids.
LeahO
p.s. I say co-dependence because I worry about him at times others find silly too.