We had been without a dog for awhile, and Vicki decided it was time. I was neither for or against. We had had Boxers and our last dog was a temporary houseguest Border Collie, but she was determined to do endless research and find our "perfect breed" the scientific way.
She surfed the net, talked with dog people, vets, and must have brought home a dozen different books on breed types and read, and re-read every one from cover to cover.(She has an MBA. If you knew her, you'd understand this method is her typical obsessive approach.)
Finally, one day, she announced that the Newfoundland was going to be our breed, and the entire tedious process started over with breeders.
Now I, mind you, did not know a Newfoundland from a Westie. Really; Just never paid attention, so I just said "New-Finland, whatever". After correcting my pronuciation, she then told me of all the breeds, this was the mellow, loveable, family dog that we needed. She then told me how large they were. Well, I kind of flipped, and said, in no uncertain terms, that there would be no 150# dog in our future, and to try again. I pictured my last Boxer- 80 pounds, slap-happy, and a little (o.k., well a lot) on the stupid side- double that weight, flipping over furniture, digging mammoth holes in the yard and generally acting badly. No giant dogs for me!
So Vicki went back to the drawing board. Unhappy that I was so adamantly against Newfs, but realizing that it was an uphill battle, and there had to be something a little smaller, right? She studied and charted and graphed temperment vs. trainability vs. calmness. This was principally because I said "the next dog we get better be nice, smart and nearly comatose".
After another month the new study was back: Newfs won again. This time, though, she had the equivalent of a doctoral thesis written on the virtues of Newfoundlands. I was trapped by the results of her statistical analysis of every breed known to man. I threw in the towel and admitted that I could not fight what was there in black and white. I ignored the situation, knowing it would take another lifetime for her to find a breeder. In January, 2001, she found a breeder in Michigan who was having puppies. May 15, 2001 we were on our way to pick up our puppy.
I kept my feelings to myself for the most part. I was NOT happy about this situation. I just knew that my luck was going to bring me to a breed and a particular dog that I would hate. We were on our way to pay a lot of cash for a mammal about the size of a grown man, that I was sure would act like a drunk crack-head as soon as we got it home. That was then.
In the first 10 days, and now over the past two years, I learned that the Newf is the best breed of dog that God and man ever conspired to create. It is absolutely everything that I always wanted in a family member. I was so wrong- she was so right.
We found Newfs by raw analysis of what we wanted in a family pet. I am now a Newf freak, but at the time, all we wanted was a pet that actually fit in with us. It really could have been any shape or size and Vicki would have gone with it. Now we both appreciate the breed for their beauty as well as personality and vowed that a Newf (or two) are the dogs for us.
Phil