@#$% ... venting!

ward_hill

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Buckley usually takes his long walk in the late morning, in public parks. Now that the first really warm day was here, I decided to take him in the early evening. Naturally, there were a lot more dog walkers at this time.

Newly minted CGC Buckley was walking briskly at my side along the path when a woman approached with two beagles at the ends of their leads in front of her. I told Buckley to (continue to) heel, and gave an uh-uh meaning no visiting, when suddenly the beagle lunged and bit Buck right on the face!! Buckley never growled or retaliated and had an expression that said "what just happened!?" I was dumbstruck! The woman looked at me and said nothing, no apology, no nuttin'. I wanted to check him immediately and so let her go with a half-hearted "you ought to control your dog." He was fine, and it didn't appear that the skin was broken. (Newf jowls must be pretty vulnerable to punctures, I'd guess?)

Now, coming around the circuit, here she is again! Approaching, I nastily asked whether she was going to control her dog this time and sternly told her that her dog should be muzzled. (Dollars to donuts, this isn't the first time her dog has done this.) I also said that if her dogs even looked at Buckley cross-eyed that I'd be reporting to Animal Control.

Not two minutes later, along comes a woman being dragged by a prong-collar-wearing pit bull (nice looking dog, gray and white). I told Buck to halt, sit, and stay which he did, no problem. I said to her "go ahead, I'll wait." She somehow managed to keep the dog from lunging and went past.

What the %$#* is the matter with these people!!

Admittedly, I'm new to handling a dog, and haven't had the years of experiences like many folks on this board, who have probably had worse things happen. But, jeez! I wouldn't dream of having an ill-behaved dog any more than I would throw my trash in the street, or blast music at 4am, etc.

Done venting!! That is all ...
 

KodysGrandma

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You've good reason to vent, I would to if it had been my dog. Back to morning walks I think. Too many people are just selfish, impolite boors these days.
 

RiverTheNewf

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I know EXACTLY what you mean! And it's usually the smaller dogs (no offense intended) that are barking at the end of their lead, dragging their owner's arm off. River (a 5 month old puppy, mind you) is usually sitting at my side clucking her tongue at these poor misbehaved, misguided dogs.
 

CMDRTED

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Remember this is the "I'm entitled" United States of America now. Politeness, courtesy, and manners are not part of the "Politically Correct" America anymore.

I'm entitled to:

Everything is about ME!
Everyone is Second to ME!
You must cow-tau to ME!
Anything I do is god for ME!, I could care less about you!
Me is right, Me is good!
and on..and on.......and on....
 

4ondafloor

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Oh Ward, you are sooo not alone.
I don't go to dog parks and I don't do public walking trails. It's the IDIOTS you just spoke of. The best way for me to control the situation is to do exaclty what you did the second time around. Then I started thinking "WHY SHOULD I HAVE TO be the one to put Pae and Syd in a sit/stay and have then focus on me in odrer for a dog to pass. It made no sense..So, Now we go other places where we don't have to worry about it. I'm fortunate that the area that I live in is saturated with all sorts of hiking trails close to my home. Plus, we are selective about WHEN we go to. We stay away from the city parks and recreational areas.
I'm sorry this happened to you..
 

Erika

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thats why we walk in fields and out of the way places........had enough of bad owners in parks and dog parks. I say leashand walk the owners near these out of control dogs
 

Allise

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Yup, further confirmation of why we don't take our walkies thru the neighborhood....sorry you had to encounter this and bravo to you for being a responsible owner and properly training you pup...you have reason to vent..no apology from the beagle owner...argh....
 

R Taft

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I so feel for you.....But one thing amongst all this bad stuff is that Buckley did awesomely well.........Good on you Buckley, so well done
 

newfy

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I know the feeling, same thing happened to Merlin & me at the local car show, we were sitting at the local coffee show (outside), Merlin was laying down next to me, a women with a pit mix is walking down the street, he is pulling her, when he gets close to us, the pit lunges at Merlin, I step in between them, & the people also sitting next to us all give this women a piece of their minds about Control your dog, never seen her at another car show. These people need to take more responsibilty to train & socialize their dogs or they should not have dogs. We will not stop going to the shows, these are Merlin's favorite things to do (he thinks he is the main attraction), just be more aware of ignorant pet owners.
 

victoria1140

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we avoid people like the plague now . I know one of my rescues who is the sweetest girl at home becomes a dominant dog when out on walks so I always leash her if I see other dogs around . Some people just need a good shake to bring them to reality. I dont accept bad behaviour in my dogs and I am responsible enough to know which problems occur in which situations , just wish other people did
 

joestephr1991

New member
Remember this is the "I'm entitled" United States of America now. Politeness, courtesy, and manners are not part of the "Politically Correct" America anymore.

I'm entitled to:

Everything is about ME!
Everyone is Second to ME!
You must cow-tau to ME!
Anything I do is god for ME!, I could care less about you!
Me is right, Me is good!
and on..and on.......and on....
OMG you couldn't be more right!! It is so nice to hear that someone else recognizes the way things are now. THANK-you for saying it.
 

Sound Bay Newfs

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Sorry to hear that happened to you and Buckley, Tom. I have seen things like this at the dog parks. There was one Lab mix that made his rounds to all the dogs there, humping them all while the oblivious owner sat in a beach chair on the other side of the park! Generally I have found a dog's personality many times is an extension of his owners.:whistling:
 

ward_hill

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OMG you couldn't be more right!! It is so nice to hear that someone else recognizes the way things are now. THANK-you for saying it.
It's the sad truth, at least in my little corner of the world.

As a Baby Boomer (junior division!), I know from the Me Generation! People's everyday behavior in stores, cars, parks, etc., is appalling. I guess it shouldn't have surprised me that it extends to dog ownership!

Lesson learned, Buckley not hurt, will proceed with caution.
 

Keren Giovengo

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I'm so proud of Buckley and definitely was feeling for both of you! We just rescued our 4 year old Sully several weeks ago. Because of the heat, I've been walking with him early in the morning (between 5:15 and 6 AM). One morning I saw a woman walking along with her terrier who wasrunning all over the neighbor's lawns (unleashed). Her terrier saw Sully and I and high tailed it across 5 lawns barking and running at full speed. I'm still working on basic commnds with Sully (he's so smart and we're coming along well, but "sit" was still pretty new to him). The dog came running and barking right up to Sully. Sully just looked at the dog. Meanwhile, I'm shouting across 5 lawns for the woman to "please call your dog and put your dog on a leash". I had to politely requst two times before she bothered to call her dog back. I was so proud of Sully but was feeling exactly the way you voiced your feelings! I'm so proud of Buckley (and Sully!).
 

Tricia2

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I'm thinking about getting one of these for those troublesome pet owners and their errant dogs (notice the convenient shoulder strap):



The Super Soaker Aqua Shock Hydroblitz blaster from Hasbro delivers high performance with rapid fire blasting! Its dual mode design gives you more than one way to shock and surprise your opponents: soak 'em in a stream or blast 'em with multi-blasting bursts! Fill the huge 101 ounce water tank and get ready to blast targets up to 35 feet away!
 
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NessaM

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It's the sad truth, at least in my little corner of the world.

As a Baby Boomer (junior division!), I know from the Me Generation! People's everyday behavior in stores, cars, parks, etc., is appalling. I guess it shouldn't have surprised me that it extends to dog ownership!

Lesson learned, Buckley not hurt, will proceed with caution.
Right! So if y'all don't like the way everything in the States is Me Me Me, then I think the best thing you can do is to take on a Community Outreach Project! :roflmao: No really I'm serious though -

Print up flyers for the obedience school you and Buckley attend, wherever that is. Always grab a few when you're headed out for walks - maybe keep them next to the poop bags so you remember to pick 'em up. Then kill these morons with kindness. Folks are way more likely to stop for a compliment than a curse, so the next time you see the poor woman with the dragging pit, tell her you think her dog is very handsome. Ask a couple simple questions about the dog to engage her, and then ask where she takes him to classes for obedience. If she says they don't go anymore, tell her you "just" found this awesome trainer, pat your pockets and say something like, "I grabbed a flyer on my way out the door of the trainer's today, I might still have it on me," and then pass her the paper. Tell her Buckley used to pull you around like a demon and he's been much better since you started training.

Think of the good you'll be doing your community!
 

lacey9875

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Right! So if y'all don't like the way everything in the States is Me Me Me, then I think the best thing you can do is to take on a Community Outreach Project! :roflmao: No really I'm serious though -

Print up flyers for the obedience school you and Buckley attend, wherever that is. Always grab a few when you're headed out for walks - maybe keep them next to the poop bags so you remember to pick 'em up. Then kill these morons with kindness. Folks are way more likely to stop for a compliment than a curse, so the next time you see the poor woman with the dragging pit, tell her you think her dog is very handsome. Ask a couple simple questions about the dog to engage her, and then ask where she takes him to classes for obedience. If she says they don't go anymore, tell her you "just" found this awesome trainer, pat your pockets and say something like, "I grabbed a flyer on my way out the door of the trainer's today, I might still have it on me," and then pass her the paper. Tell her Buckley used to pull you around like a demon and he's been much better since you started training.

Think of the good you'll be doing your community!

I was going to suggest carrying a can of mace, but Nessa made a much better ( and nicer!) suggestion!!
 

ina/puusty

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A good suggestion there as to the extensions of positive options, of course..the watercannon ;)..certainly could have its moments!! 'Nessa the Proffesa'..has a nice ring to it..I'm thinkin'..and just imagine her in her 90s..bringin' up the Class.. :) ina n HB n Kesa
 
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