Miss Ella Can’t Control Her Licker

[Darwinsnewfie@1855]

I was taking Ella on her morning walk today with my 2 friends that have young toddlers. Ella is very gentle and loving with them. These 2 moms are dog lovers too and dont seem to mind when Ella licks their kid’s faces. However, today we ran into another mom who also has a toddler, and when Ella tried to lick her face, the mom was less then thrilled. I get it....a lot of moms dont want a drooling dog licking their toddlers faces. When I noticed the mom’s disgusted expression, I told Ella No and redirected her away from this child. This mom then started to tell me how they have a dog at home that no one spends time with and are never getting a dog ever again. I took Ella home and started to feel really bad for scolding her for doing something that I let her do everyday. Ella is just one of those Newfs who cant control her licker, especially around kids. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to handle situations like this? I was thinking about just walking away next time, but not giving a correction.

 

[Jeannie]

I don't think you did the wrong thing. She needs to learn that she can and cannot lick all toddlers or people in general.

 

[Angela]

I would just walk away, certainly not correct her because that would really confuse her.

 

[victoria1140]

Bless her,redirect her attention ,not everyone loves our dogs being friendly.

 

[lmfoltyn]

Ahhh....newfie kisses are just the best but I do realize not all people love our dogs...I would have just walked away also...

 

[wrknnwf]

I usually warn parents when I have an overly affectionate dog and ask if they mind. If the kids are old enough I say, "You might get kissed! Do you like kisses?"

If they don't, then I keep the dog distracted with a yummy treat, or some praise and pets. That way the dog isn't being punished for doing what comes naturally. Also put a "no lick" kind of command and reward when the dog responds appropriately. Add a "give kisses" command to let the dog know when it's OK.

 

[Jeannie]

Also put a "no lick" kind of command and reward when the dog responds appropriately. Add a "give kisses" command to let the dog know when it's OK.

This is exactly what I was talking about.

 

[Bailey Boy]

I would redirect as you did as already stated not everyone is openly dog friendly.

on a side note I feel sorry for her family dog - they can sense when they are not loved or wanted.

 

[NinaA]

Good grief. I feel so bad for her dog. As wonderful as Daisy, the Kentucky Porch Dog, is, we always wonder what kind of life she had, as she does not give kisses, nor does she play with anything, or chew on anything. Now, that's great for us, but how sad for her. On her Gotcha Day last month she actually showed for the first time signs of playfulness. At least a step in the play direction. I wonder if this woman's dog has a no affection, no play kind of life.